Category: leadership & management

  • How to stay motivated to achieve your goals?

    How to stay motivated to achieve your goals?

    I keep on my mission to create more women who are CEO. And not any type of CEO but CEO of your own life.

    One of the things that the CEO needs to do is to achieve goals. I want to chat a bit more about your 2020 goals and your motivation.

    It is up to you if you want to read more below or jump to YouTube to learn my motivation goals from the video.

    YOU and YOUR SMART goals

    You set all your goals, they are smart, have deadlines, and those are your big dreams, but you got intimidated by them. Maybe those were too big goals – you thing, or it was too crazy to think you can do it.

    Let me remind you of an old saying: “whatever your mind will think of, can be achieved”.

    That being said let’s find your motivation to make it happen.

    3 STEPS to achieve any goal

    First of all standard 3 steps that I recommend to my family, friends, clients and today also to you. Then I will give you my solution as to how to motivate yourself to achieve those intimidating, big goals.

    Step 1
    Write down your goal in the full sentence and keep it in a visible place. and yes, it can be hidden in your closet (if you are afraid to show it to the world yet), and if that closet is, of course, the one you open daily to pick up your wardrobe.

    Step 2
    Visualisation! That is not only about sitting down meditating and seeing yourself achieving. It is about feelings. Ask yourself: How will you feel when you will achieve the goal? What do you feel when you think about the path to this goal? Why achieving it is so important for you? How does your body feel when you think about getting to that goal and having it in your life? all those questions or actually all answers to those questions will put you in the right vibration and connect with your initial WHY? Why you wrote down this goal in the first place.

    Step 3
    It is even more about your why. If you listed your goals but have not idea why you want to achieve them, believe me, no matter what I will say you will not want to take action to reach this goal. Let me tell you a bit about one of my goals. The goal is connected to my health and body. It is that I weight 70 kg before my summer holidays start, that would be July 2020. It is a very SMART goal Specific, Measurable, Achievable, realistic and the time deadline is set. However, to move mu but, and I truly and physically mean to move my body, move my but and exercise, I need something more. and that is my motivation, my why?

    In this case my why is to fit my pre-pregnancy trousers, look great in a bikini, have a healthy body, feel strong and fit, and the most important have no more troubles with my back. My why is a fulfilling my set goal. I keep both together, so when I read as in step 1 my goal I also read my step 3 that is the “why” it is worth to put work and achieve this goal. It all helps to do step 2 that is visualising myself healthy and feeling good in my body.

    my motivation secret

    We got all 3 steps and now I will share with you my ultimate solution to stay motivated in achieving the big goal.

    Coming back to the weight loss. This is actually a huge goal. because it means loosing over 20 kg because it means committing time to exercise because it means to avoid sweet things, which I love. It could be super hard and almost impossible. But it is a lot easier when I divide it to steps, small steps, sort of small goals. That is exactly what I want you to do. If you feel your goal is big and almost impossible to achieve divide it. Split it into small steps. Make it into little things, little achievements you could tick of quicker. Instead of one huge goal, have 10 tiny goal steps that will make you closer to the big goal. Write those tiny step goals in your calendar, so you will know it is time to take action on those.

    And if you look for even more motivation, let’s have a chat, you can schedule a discovery call with me. Just click the button below.

  • Do you feel not good enough?

    Do you feel not good enough?

    I know I had been shy this year with videos on YouTube and seriously not serious about my channel. Since 27 December 2019, I sort off disappeared, but I needed time for myself to figure things out.

    2020 is a big number for many people. Some say a new decade a new beginning to get on top things.

    I simply got overwhelmed, scared, terrified of what I can achieve, and most of all terrified that I am doing something wrong. Simply I felt like not good enough for the job.

    However, as I am a coach I quickly got up and running with my planning for this amazing year.

    Check out my first Youtube video for 2020 or keep on reading.

    You just got to believe me

    I got to admit I even recorded the video I wanted to post on 2nd January. You just got to believe me. that is was connected to achieving goals. It was a very motivational video with high vibration and positivity. I uploaded it, but then an imposter syndrome jumped in my head. I realised I am not good enough.

    And today,

    I guess,

    I want to talk with you about that “I am not good enough” part. Something that might be popping in your head sometime as well.

    “I am not good enough”

    I want to tackle this “I am not good enough” judgment. The feeling that occurred at the start of the year. The feeling that is visiting you as well. No matter how great things you achieve, how many things you tackle, how high grades you get you still can feel not good enough.

    Let’s change it today.

    As a female, you are strong and able to achieve great things, but you are also an emotional ball. There is a moment when we achieving a lot and we feel great, we got the money, we expand the business, we grow in the corporation and we expect more from ourselves than from others. Then we feel overwhelmed, scared, stressed, overworked and … yes, not good enough.

    The inner critic is coming out from a shell and putting you down.

    It doesn’t need to be like this.

    I have 2 exercises for you.

    First is for everyday practice. I mentioned it already a while ago, however, I will repeat it as it is crucial to make it your daily habit (as brushing your teeth or drinking coffee). I want you to pause this video not and comment below what is that you have achieved today. And daily, I want you to wire down from 1 to 5 successes point or goals achieved during the day. Get yourself a special notebook for it and write it with your handwriting to give it a bigger meaning.

    Now stop reading and write down you today’s achievement. and if you like you can share it in the comments below.

    Comment done, welcome back.

    Let me tell you about the second exercise.

    Who is your inner critic?

    This one is about your inner critic.

    I want you to describe it.

    Who he/she is?

    What age?

    How does it look like?

    What your inner critic’s voice sounds like?

    Once you know all about him/her whenever the voice gets on to say

    “Thank you for noticing”

    and keep on doing what you are best at. Go to achieve another goal.

    Believe me, you are not the only one who feels not good enough. I have those moments too. Moments that could stop m from taking great action. But I know how my inner critic looks like, I hear him, I acknowledge his existence, but I do not let him worry me too long.

    And if you want to work on your inner critic and finally feel like good enough book a free discovery session with me and see for yourself how you can become a CEO of your own life.

  • How to change your nasty habit into the power habit?

    How to change your nasty habit into the power habit?

    Nasty habits are in our lives but it is our choice to keep them or change them.
    Take a look at the belove video to see how and which nasty habits I want to change.